Friday, April 3, 2009

FFF-Beach




Today's Favorite Foto Friday theme is "Beach'. I bought these sunglasses at Children's Place on Saturday on my girl's day out. He put them on and has to wear them every day all day. The first thing he says when he gets up is "Blue Eyes". He only takes them off for eating and sleeping. I know it isn't the best for him to wear at night but he is two and right now I am picking my battles carefully. Cameron has not been to the beach yet but we are going to California in June. We are staying near Universal the first 4 days and the last 3 days in Santa Monica on the beach. I am so excited. I lived there for about 6 months when I was 19 years old. I was completely broke and not working so I never got to enjoy much while living there. That is what happens when you are young and follow a boy there. Anyway Cameron is talking up a storm and really getting into things I can't wait to spend this vacation with him & Dan.
His new nickname is Chatty Cathy. He talks all day every day. Most of it I can understand but Daddy is still having a hard time. Dan has been in Vegas since Tuesday night and Cameron is doing okay with it. He did ask tonight if Daddy Home. He will be home tomorrow and I am so ready for him to come home. He goes every year but it is kinda good for us to be away from each other for a few days. We really realize how much we love and appreciate each other. He does so much for me and our family and I love him so much for it. He is so into his terrible twos. He has such a hot temper that he now throws temper tantrums for an hour to an hour and a half. I have no clue how he lasts that long but it wears me out. When he is home it doesn't bother me too much. He has become a little destructive at times so I put him in his crib with no toys and when he is done he lets me know. But a few weeks ago we took the car in for a maintenance appt. and he threw a fit the whole hour we were there and then an additional half hour after the appt. Everyone was staring of course b/c I wasn't picking him up and babying him. I try to comfort him but he pushes me away. I cried so hard the other day b/c I feel so bad when he gets upset. I have no idea how to comfort him and what to do for him. He refuses to tell him what he wants and it so hard to know what he wants. I am slowly learning how to handle it without getting so upset but it is hard with a hot-headed child. Why don't they come with manuals!

4 comments:

Arena Mom said...

I am with you on the tantrums! Mayna had one the other night and tried to kick me out of her room (I won't leave her b/c of our past attachment issues). She says "OUT OF MY ROOOOOM!". It breaks my hear. If she is doing this at 2, what will she do as a teenager!?!?! Oh, I can't wait until this stage is over!!! Can't wait to see you guys again this July!! Good luck with the tantrums!

Hannah said...

We have lucked out in the tantrum department, Sophia has only done a few and only one was in public. I feel for you though...it is awful in public, especially when strangers butt in.

Hugs.

Michelle Smiles said...

Thankfully Sabrina's tatrums are at home instead of public but I fear the drama when she is in her teens!

He's a cutie!

Chris and Lindsey Wheeler said...

I definitely hear "mama" ALL DAY LONG!!!! I love his little sunglasses....so cute!!!